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Law of attraction is a very cool principle. I like it because it gives me a sense of hope. If I’m attracting something bad, it means I can STOP attracting it an attract something I like. Like attracting almond mild chocolate ice cream.

But in the dogmatic way of our world, Law Of Attraction has become a burden of rules, loopholes and a lot like the Catholic Church, of which I’m probably still on the rolls somewhere.

It’s time to estimate, attract and create on a more self-actualized level. Where “close” is pretty freaking good.

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Tony Robbins knows a thing or two about living in a big way.

You only have to look at his life to be amazed at how he’s purposefully shaped every part of it.

You don’t have to love  him or hate him to learn from him. And how to shape your life by listening to people who’ve been there, done that. You might even be able to avoid a little grief by following their advice.

Or win $170.

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Self-actualized is a crazy concept.

It means you have developed and focused on more and more of your parts and pieces until you are finally ok with life.

Way beyond “I don’t care.” All the way to, “I don’t care that I care.”

The difference between going to a party naked and being oblivious to everyone else and their thoughts and feelings…including your own about going naked to a party.

Add in if it’s supposed to be a naked party or not. Or if you misread the invitation.

I have wonderful adult college friends with a hot tub. You can see how this could go wrong fast. Two couples, we all know each other from college and give each other crap while at the same time being rock solid.

Somebody took off their swim trunks, held them above the water and said, “hey Rita, you should take off your suit.”. So, I did. Except he had two suits on, and I just had the one. Did I care that I was tricked and the only one naked in the hot tub with this other couple?

Of course.

But that relationship had been worked on and worked with for over 20 years. It was more self-actualized. So I didn’t care that I cared. Sound familiar? It’s a great feeling.

So if you are ready to break free from your chains of the past…it’s time to revisit all the corners of yourself you thought were “bad”.

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Decisionmaking is easier than you think.

I’ve made terrible decisions in my life. Getting fired instead of quitting my cushy government job.

Saying things when I’m angry at being cornered. Instead of keeping my wits.

And I’ve made great choices too. Like when I decided to follow my curiosity about Native American Medicines.

It’s good to reflect on how we decide. It means we can CHOOSE. And avoid “total epic fails”.

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Neuroplasticity. If you’ve ever caught yourself sounding EXACTLY like one of your parents, you know what I mean.

The people around us shape us. Whether we like it or not.

If you’ve every heard yourself say something that you KNOW is limiting, insensitive, sabotaging yourself…then it’s time to dig deeper.

Because “if you’re not first, you’re last” is a ridiculous way to live. It’s time to change your mind.

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Are you a highly sensitive person?

If you are a highly sensitive person, your body has been speaking VERY LOUD most of your life.

There is a sweet spot where your inner voice is a nice conversation, not a raving lunatic. Really.

And when you hear it with open ears, you can clean up all the thoughts, feelings, emotions…that get in the way of your best interests.

You have to relax, hear it, understand it, and act.

Last week’s livestream will help you interpret your body.

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